Party People

‘Tis the season for holiday cheer, celebrating with family & friends, & yes, the occasional party snafu. Even the most seasoned party hostess (and guest) among us has tripped up a time or two, so I thought it the perfect time for a few etiquette reminders from some of my favorite tastemakers:

Colin Cowie says honesty is the best policy:

If you’re unable to attend a party, be up-front and honest. We all keep busy schedules, and it’s not possible to attend everything. The main point is to RSVP as soon as you get the invite. Hosts need time to plan accordingly.

Jonathan Adler weighs in on taboos:

Sex & politics are the only things that should be discussed at a dinner table! Polite conversation is a bore.

Eva Jeanbart-Lorenzotti on the crowd:

Start with the guest list. The key is to invite friends you’re always comfortable with as well as one unexpected guest with a spicy personality. Break the ice with a fun drink. Think caipirinhas.

Kate Spade weighs in on the toast:

Short, personaly, & humorous is always welcome. Long, grand, and too personal is usually embarrassing and always boring!

Now put on your favorite party dress, and remember: being yourself & having fun are really the two unbreakable party rules!

Adapted from InStyle.

Images: Kate Spade; coco+kelley; Dress, Design, Decor